Is your path to healing lonely? Well! it should be.
Healing is such a unique journey that is only unique to yourself. Sure, you can get help and all this stuff but when you really want to get into the deep healing and the deep self-love that’s only a place you can do on your own. And it can be lonely because we often leave what we’re most comfortable with what we know that is our life whether it’s marriage or a family or a job what we identify with but we’re not meant to be alone.
We’re not intended. We are humans were meant to be part of tribes and communities. The problem is we tried to stay in tribes or communities that aren’t the right ones because if you’re feeling lonely that means it’s not the right one. That’s just the universe trying to tell you that you’re in the wrong tribe and I was there for years. Sometimes we’re born into it, sometimes we marry into it but we try so hard to stay there but yet we still feel so lonely but trust me it is not fleeting. It is going to take a process but that feeling of loneliness way easier to endure than pain, desperation, unfulfillment and confusion that we feel when we’re in relationships or families or situations where we don’t feel like we belong. When you feel like you don’t belong that’s also a very lonely place to be.
You know, I always said to myself I would rather feat be alone physically then be with somebody and be alone emotionally because that’s way harder to accept.
If we can join tribes and communities to make ourselves feel not as much
physically alone but the path to Healing is a lonely one because we’re going to
leave everything that we’ve ever known and that’s why most people don’t want to because it’s uncomfortable but just know that the universe is purposely making you uncomfortable so that you do leave because that’s not where you’re meant to be. We’re not meant to be unhappy; we’re not meant to be sad; we’re not meant to be unfulfilled.
The universe is trying to guide you to the place where you need to go and this feeling of loneliness and uncomfortableness is just making you strong enough so that you can leave that situation and get to the place where you’re meant to be. So just know that it’s meant for you to be uncomfortable and lonely and it’s
not forever. Nothing is forever.
So, stay strong.